It’s cool if you don’t like me. I really like me….
This is the mindset we need to have. It takes time to build and comes with confidence. I remember I use to walk into a room full of people and wonder if they liked me…. Now I look around and wonder if I like them. One day it just clicks. You realise what’s important and what isn’t. You stop putting energy into questioning why people don't like you. Instead you put the same energy into practicing self-love, learning to love your body, personality, life and everything about YOURSELF.
As you get older, wiser and more confident you learn to care less about what other people think of you and more about what you think of yourself. You realise how far you’ve come. You are truly proud of yourself and the person you’ve fought to become. The more you know who you are, and what you want the less you let things upset you. You come to a point in your life where you really don’t care what people think about you, you just care what you think about yourself- and that’s the only thing that truly matters.
Self-confidence is something that manifests in your mind. It comes from how you view yourself in relation to the world around you. Confidence is what changed my life a few years ago, so I know how amazing & important it is for every single woman to be the most confident version of themselves.
You already are that girl who creates magic wherever she goes, who lives fearlessly, who inspires those around her to dream bigger, and who will leave the world better, just for having been in it. Stop listening to that voice inside your head that tells you, you're not good enough. There is only ONE YOU on this earth. Are are unique. Be memorable. Be confident. Be proud of who YOU are.
Don’t let others opinions and judgments define you. Not everyone you meet is going to like you. That’s just life. Don't let other people draw boundaries and limits around your life and your confidence. People will dislike you for NO REASON & they probably won't even know the REAL you. You cannot please everyone. If they don't know you personally, don't take it personally. The truth is that the way other people see us isn't about us- it’s about them and their own struggles, INSECURITIES and LIMITATIONS. You don't have to allow their judgement to become your TRUTH. Know your worth. You are GOOD enough, SMART enough, and BEAUTIFUL enough and STRONG enough. Believe it and never let insecurity run your life. Never let the opinions of others affect your self confidence. Opinions do not define your worth or who you are. Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Believe in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself.
Life is SO much more amazing once you learn how to tap into your confidence & live in your true essence. Confidence is an extremely important quality, for your well-being, happiness and overall life satisfaction. Once you become a confident, self-loving and positive person, you will find that your life will transform so effortlessly. EVERYTHING in your life is tied to your confidence and how you feel about yourself.
Remember you don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. Other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside. It has to come from YOU. Confidence is something entirely dependent on YOU. Once you become a confident person, no one can take that away from you.
Become your #1 fan and supporter. Rely on yourself. You don’t need the validation and attention from others. Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect and stay true to your values. You know deep down, that you have value and no one can take that away from you.
3 helpful confidence building tips:
1. Stop comparing yourself to others. You are you. Nobody else can be YOU even if they tried. You are unique and beautiful. You are you.
2. Stop doubting yourself. Replace your thoughts with more confident ones.
3. Practice self love (click here to be taken to our self love blog)
Sending lots of loving vibes lovers
Pure Glow Co